Lately, more than ever, I have felt like there’s not enough of me.
As a mom, I have felt like on some level I am failing.
Because my little one is having seizures, and there’s nothing I can do to stop them.
And, amidst the specialist appointments, and ambulance rides, and normal day to day responsibilities, it has felt heavy. This burden of motherhood has felt like a larger burden than I am accustomed to carrying.
And then, I realize that along the ride, my other kids have had to take a back seat.
And I feel guilty.
I feel guilty that those regular daily pre-school lessons have suddenly stopped.
I feel guilty because I spend more time holding that baby and less time snuggling with my big babies.
And then, if I do the opposite, I feel guilty that the baby has not been held more.
I feel guilty because my lap is not big enough for all of them. And my energy level does not always allow me to run and play like I have in the past. And, there have been no planned activities or extra outings.
And, I am tired, but when I finally dose off for a nap, I feel guilty, because what if that little one has a seizure while I sleep.
I feel guilty because my 3 year old has eaten nothing today besides the chips he sneakily grabs from the cabinet while I’m nursing the baby, or changing a diaper.
And, I think How am I supposed to do this?
How am I supposed to meet the needs of 3 little people at one time?
I take a moment for myself to breathe, and then I feel guilty all over again, because moms are not supposed to get moments to themselves to breathe, are they?
Even as I write these words, the guilt overwhelms me.
I can never be enough for them.
But, that’s it. Isn’t it?
I can NEVER be enough for them.
I can NEVER fix all of their problems, no matter how badly I want to.
I can NEVER love them enough to fulfill all the love that they need.
Because I’m just me. I’m a flawed, messed up person, who happens to be blessed with the task of mothering these babies.
So, today I stop trying to be enough.
Maybe it’s OK for them to see that I’m not. For them to know that I am going to let them down.
Because my hope is, that in my failure, I point them to the one who will never fail them.
That in my insufficiency, I point them to the one who is sufficient, unwaivering, ENOUGH.
May they see my weakness, and in that, seek His strength.
2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.